As a Nichehero our goal is to influence people and make them part of our life.
There are two major obstacles in becoming a leader.
Real leaders will go beyond procrastination and criticism. So what is the solution to defeat criticism and procrastination? Leaders never expect things to happen, they struggle and make them happen.
It was narrated that Suhayb said: the Messenger of Allah Sallallahu alaihe wasallam said: “How wonderful is the affair of the believer, for all his affairs are good, and this applies to no one except the believer. If something good happens to him, he gives thanks, and that is good for him, and if something bad happens to him, he bears it with patience, and that is good for him.” Narrated by Muslim, 2999.
When you are down with criticism and you think that this is the end of the world then remind yourself that Allah has made leadership in terms of religion conditional upon patience and certain faith, as He says, “And We made from among them (Children of Israel), leaders, giving guidance under Our Command, when they were patient and used to believe with certainty in Our Ayaat”. Al Sajdah 32:34
Allah has made patience like a horse that never gets tired, an army that can never be defeated and a strong fortress that can never be breached. Patience and victory are twin brothers, for victory comes with patience, relief comes with distress and ease comes with hardship. Patience is of more help to the one who has it than men, as it helps without any need for equipment or numbers and its relationship to victory is like that of the head to the body.
‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al- ‘Azeez radiallahu anhu said: Allah has not bestowed any blessing upon His slaves then taken it away and replaced it with patience, but what He has compensated them with is better than what He has taken away.
Never expect yourself to be given a good value, create a value of your own. Falling down is not defeat; real defeat is when you are refusing to get up.
How to get over procrastination
1. If you’ve chosen the wrong goal you’ll procrastinate. If you find yourself without energy ask yourself if you are doing the right thing.
2. You need a life coach. I would recommend Discoverulife.com and get your goal-achieved 6x faster.
3. If your goals are too easy you will procrastinate. Get into challenge, which excites you.
4. Wrong frame of perception.
5. You have the wrong tools.